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5 Reasons I honestly like Virginia Beach
It’s one of those eternal questions: what’s a good day trip from Washington DC? In my opinion, there’s not a whole lot of choice. Yes,...
Jun 15, 2020


Foreign Service hiring numbers explained
A lot of people ask me how many diplomats the State Department is hiring at the moment. I thought the question was moot because the 2017...
Jun 11, 2020


Corona virus III - Mental health
Sometimes I wonder if I’m successfully settling into a nice, slower pace of life, or if I’m just slowly losing my mind. One minute I feel...
Jun 10, 2020


What to do when your career isn’t taking off
I’ve written a whole bunch of blog posts on how to enter the Foreign Service and more generally on how to kick-start a career in...
Jun 9, 2020


Black Lives Matter
This Saturday saw the biggest Black Lives Matter protests so far in Washington DC. Figuring this is an important event, and being mindful...
Jun 7, 2020


The work that goes into moving
When am I moving to Berlin? I don’t know! But I have to be prepared for it anyway, because it could happen any time. Or, more...
Jun 3, 2020


4 failed blogging attempts (and why they failed)
I’ve been writing this blog more or less consistently for two and a half years. But I tried blogging before—four times, actually—and it...
Jun 1, 2020


Corona virus II: positive test result (!)
Brief update: I took an antibody test at LabCorp last week and got a positive result. I wasn’t surprised. Although I never had a fever or...
May 18, 2020


First post-lock down trip: Ocean City
On the first day Maryland relaxed its COVID-related restrictions we found ourselves in Ocean City. It’s a three-hour drive from DC, but...
May 18, 2020


Language Test Anti-Climax
German language training is over! Just like that—no dreaded test, no fretting over scores—I was told I “met the required level” and that...
May 12, 2020


Improve your writing for the FSOT
Writing is an important part of the Foreign Service exam because it’s an important part of being a diplomat. I would argue that, if...
Apr 26, 2020


Corona virus I - Staying at home
It’s been quite a month! Staying home with my husband and two kids while continuing to work “full-time” has been a challenge. Especially...
Apr 23, 2020


Losing the Bilingual Battle
I try to speak Dutch with my kids, while my husband usually sticks to English. That way we both speak our native languages and,...
Jan 27, 2020


What to learn at the Smithsonian
There are a bunch of massive, amazing, free museums in Washington DC called the "Smithsonian." There's one for American History, Art, Air...
Jan 13, 2020


2019 Recap
It never occurred to me to recap a calendar year. I think a lot about my past—especially about how it influences the present, but...
Jan 7, 2020


Holidays in DC & Winter blues
I recently wrote in a post that I never liked living in or around DC. But when I moved here in June, I decided this was going to change....
Jan 1, 2020


Oops, I moved again
We had to switch apartments last month. No big deal. I just got a few boxes from the supermarket, borrowed a luggage cart, and the whole...
Dec 30, 2019


Reliving the nightmare: testing new FSOA materials
This week I did something pretty interesting: I was part of a small group of diplomats testing out new materials for the Foreign Service...
Nov 16, 2019


Bidding as a tandem couple II: the telework option
The past month has been all about bidding—in other words, we’ve been looking for jobs. Not for me, obviously, because I’ll be assigned to...
Nov 11, 2019


Oakwood
What’s diplomatic life like when working domestically? Well, when we’re back, we’re not really diplomats. We don’t have immunity, or talk...
Oct 31, 2019
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