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Delivering a demarche
As I’m updating my work requirements, in anticipation of writing my yearly evaluation report, I realize I have to scratch something off...
May 3, 2021


Joining together: tandems and timing
Joining the Foreign Service as a couple is increasingly common. The State Department doesn’t release official statistics but I heard many...
Apr 16, 2021


The art of living
How to enjoy yourself? I must be a fairly serious person if I ask myself this question on a regular basis. Or at least, I used to ask...
Apr 5, 2021


Get a job or a PhD?
What’s a better idea: pursuing a PhD or entering the job market after obtaining a bachelor or master degree? With all the alleged “degree...
Mar 25, 2021


My academic exchange in Canada suuuuucked
How to put this mildly? Doing an academic exchange abroad can be… not as great as you might think. Personally, I hated it. No, this is...
Mar 24, 2021


Why being an actress is not glamorous
Before I was a diplomat, and before I even went to college, I was an actress in theater, TV, and in movies. In the Netherlands though,...
Mar 20, 2021


American Diplomat podcast
Because I promoted the How Did We Not Know That podcast I should probably also mention the American Diplomat podcast. It’s hosted by a...
Mar 13, 2021


That time I was stuck on a mountain
Look, I’m not the queen of disastrous vacations. Most of the time my trips turn out fine, or better than fine. But I like to reminisce,...
Mar 5, 2021


That time I had a worm in my leg
Travel isn’t everything. Sure, it’s one of my favorite hobbies (along with reading, shopping, cooking and, since recently, working out),...
Mar 5, 2021


The 6-month rule of settling in
After six months of living in a foreign country, you may feel a shift. Suddenly, everything looks and feels a bit different. You worry...
Feb 25, 2021


Just when I thought passports were boring
As I mentioned before, there are many different sides to consular work. I explained in a previous post that I work mostly on...
Feb 18, 2021


How the kids pick up a foreign language
We’ve been posted in Germany for six months now. While life and work have been weird for me under COVID, the kids have a had a fairly...
Feb 7, 2021


International Relations Career Checklist
I often get asked how to get started in the field of international relations. I’ve written many lengthy blogposts—essentially a small...
Feb 1, 2021


FS Career tracks: best & worst
Of the five career tracks within the general Foreign Service I chose consular because I realized it was my best chance of never being...
Jan 26, 2021


Recap 2020
Well. I think we all had more or less the same 2020, didn’t we? We stayed home a lot. We drank more than usual. We explored old and new...
Jan 25, 2021


Rich people, ugh
Today it occurred to me that of all groups of people, I probably like rich people the least. And that rich people behave similarly all...
Dec 29, 2020


Career advice with journalist Aisha Chowdhry
Aisha Chowdhry is my awesome international journalist friend, currently working freelance out of Southern Africa. I met her in Pakistan,...
Dec 7, 2020


Tips for high school students: what to study for the FS?
If you’re in high school right now and you already know you want to be a Foreign Service Officer I say: good for you! Many FSOs will...
Nov 24, 2020


Career Advice with Entrepreneur Gertje Vanhoutte
Gertje is an experienced Human Resources professional who worked in the private sector, public sector, and now as an entrepreneur. She’s...
Nov 18, 2020


You are extraordinary enough to be a FSO!
Yes, you over there! There are many people who read my blog and then email me to say they want an international career but doubt their...
Nov 12, 2020
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